Loving others does not mean we have to forget ourselves. When I say we need to be compassionate, that doesn't mean helping others at the expense of ourselves. No way. Sometimes I say that Buddhas and Bodhisattvas are the most selfish of all. For what? Because by cultivating altruism, they achieve ultimate happiness... The egoism of Buddhas and bodhisattvas is functional and effective. This not only allows them to achieve enlightenment, but also the ability to help others. It's definitely worth it. For me, this proves that to create maximum happiness, you must develop