Society contradicts itself. Perfection is a fantasy often compared to reality. However, everyone is supposed to be perfect even if it just can't happen. Everyone comes to a point in their life where they are no longer a child and the real pressure of society begins to weigh on their shoulders. Some people can handle the pressure, but others buckle under the pressure. Bullying, harassment, tyrannizing and tormenting someone can be caused by anyone. These actions are caused by people who are usually delusional and think they are superior. “Children who bully use their power, such as physical strength, access to embarrassing information, or popularity, to control or harm others.” (Definition of bullying). Just because someone is physically different or has a different sexuality, they are at risk of being bullied. For example, Tyler Clementi was publicly humiliated because he was suspected of being gay. Just like society and bullies have an effect on people, so does family. There are many ways a child can grow up in an abusive or unhealthy environment caused by their parents. When a person doesn't feel safe in their home, the scar they leave lasts forever. Due to self-esteem issues caused by societal pressure, bullying, and dysfunctional families, individuals often commit suicide. The media are the puppeteers of society; he controls everyone's life. Media is the only way people know how to communicate and be entertained. Throughout the media, many messages are left out and one of the most prevalent messages is that an individual must be perfect to gain affection. Being perfect would be impossible, but everyone is supposed to be desirable... middle of paper... physical fights. (Teen Dating Violence). In all cases of abuse, the victim will always want to get out, even if it means harming themselves or others. Additionally, suicide is never a guaranteed outcome. There is never a one hundred percent chance that suicide will be successful. When a person commits suicide, the family mourns the loss of their loved one. When a person attempts suicide and fails, the family will worry and suffer more and more. (EXPLAIN) There are various solutions to any conflict and suicide is never the solution. There are many methods for coping with suicide. These methods include talking to a loved one, seeing someone who has experienced the same feelings and improved, or talking to a therapist. The feeling of suicide is temporary and depends on the situation and how it is handled. Shut up for a bully