This can be a lack of trust, a lack of communication, too much blame, too much judgment, too much control, an emotional disconnection or a physical disconnection. Or, it could be a combination of these. The important thing is to be honest about your relationship and the negative cycles you're stuck in. Once you understand the problem, you need to put strategies in place to replace it. If you are unsure where the problem lies, you may want to consult a relationship therapist who can help you determine where the problem lies and help you develop new systems and behaviors in the relationship to resolve the problem. go see a therapist, seek help from others who can inspire you or give you a new perception on how you can approach your relationship. You'll be surprised at how much information you can find online from experts in the field of relationships. Although you might be tempted to seek advice from friends or family, it's best to seek advice from someone who isn't invested in you or your partner. This will ensure that the advice does not come from a biased place that could cause you more harm than