This is a useful example because the relationship between these three elements is usually in a constant state of distress during the latter part of the addiction and it is during these times that the triangles become more visible. When the consequences of use or addiction are contained within the family system (work is going well, no legal problems, etc.), the addicted person and the substance form an inner relationship. The rescuer typically uses harassing and other use-control behaviors to try to stop the person using from using. These behaviors are generally ineffective and create more distress in the relationship. In some ways, this can, in the addict's mind, justify increased use as a way to "deal with it." This places the rescuer in the role of