Marriage is practically something that everyone dreams of. Most 12-year-old girls have already decided down to the last detail what their perfect day will be. I remember playing childhood games where a game would determine our future and how our life would be. Of course, life has changed and we are faced with the reality of what it takes to survive in a relationship. We grew up knowing that it takes a lot more work than just a piece of paper and someone you know to determine your future. And that you will have to be with this person for the rest of your life. With divorce rates almost twice as high as marriage rates, some people still haven't grasped the reality of the work and dedication it takes to get married. Our world seems to take its own personal growth at the expense of their marriage. In reality, very few people are satisfied, according to a survey carried out in XXL. They stay in their relationships because of financial situations or children's obligations instead of dealing with their internal feelings. Sometimes people think that staying for the sake of a child is a good reason to stay in a relationship. I believe that, differently, it just makes people completely bitter towards each other. Your children are drawn into the arguments of people they both love dearly. You should immediately end any relationship that you believe is harmful to you or your spouse. On the other hand, some marriages are unlikely to be divine destiny. They always say there is someone for everyone. You meet someone who makes you think, “Have you finally met that person you’ve always dreamed of?” The person you can see yourself with for the rest of your life. So many things come to your mind about this person that you can stop thinking about them and count the time until you see this person again. You must be in love. I'm saying that being in love with someone and loving someone are two different things. Being in love with someone means you continually think about that person, continually talk about them, and continually want to be with them, while loving someone is something you choose to do when you want to do it..