-The reason why I chose this experience as one of my critical learning incidents was because I -I think the teacher n did not negotiate the problem but rather ignored it by taking the girl to class. , thinking this would solve the problem. In my opinion, the most effective way is to reinforce discipline or talk about it instead of separating the two girls, because now the other girl will not learn from her mistakes, but rather will continue to eliminate her. anger against other childrenReflection on the theory: - The girl possessed the characteristics of Erik Erikson's theory, the psychosocial stage – Initiative VS. Guilt, which occurs between 3 and 6 years old. This means that when a negative reaction occurs, the child produces