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  • Essay / Children of Divorce and Behavior Problems - 972

    Over the past 70 years, divorce has become a normal occurrence in homes across the country. Even children whose parents are married can be exposed to divorce in many places: on television, in newspapers, in magazines, at school, and in their friends' homes. Children who go through the distressing experience of divorce are much more likely to have physical and emotional problems than those who live in a home with happily married parents. Behavioral problems are one of the most documented changes in children before and after divorce. Children of divorce are more likely to have behavioral problems due to increased financial difficulties, parental differences between households, and stress caused by their circumstances. When divorce occurs, financial difficulties almost always immediately follow. According to the Stepfamily Association, 23.3 percent of all children live only with their biological mother (Rainbows). Among these female-headed families, one in four is below the poverty line, even though these single mothers almost always work full time (Andrew). When a single parent is struggling to pay their bills, they certainly won't be able to afford tutors to help them with their school work, much less counselors for behavioral and psychological issues from which their children could benefit. Children are also often deprived of simple everyday things. Katrina Gilbert, single mother and star of the documentary titled "Paycheck to Paycheck," recently opened up about her financial struggles as a single mother in an interview. “And then, on a daily basis, like if the kids want a candy bar or, mom, I want a toy, I can't – I just tell them I don't have money for that. I can't do this right now", ...... middle of paper ...... and again in the divorce proceedings. Studies have shown that the more stressful transitions a child goes through, including parental divorce and remarriage, the more likely they are to exhibit behavioral problems (Amato). Children forced into divorce are more likely to have behavioral problems due to stricter constraints. finances, differences between parents and stress. Financial difficulties can leave children without proper care and tools for their education. Parental differences can cause children to become confused and resentful toward one or both parents. Children who are forced to move and choose sides by their parents are extremely affected by the stress caused by these events. Although divorce is apparent in every child's life in one way or another, children who experience it firsthand must be resilient in the face of any new challenges that come their way..