Even if we argue and disagree with each other; we should not hold grudges, put down or hurt each other. Using harmful words like “stupid” or “ugly” when we are angry can damage our self-esteem, as can attacking flaws that we know the other person is aware of. Since the youngest is only ten, it's especially important not to do this to her, as it might be more harmful and she might not be able to handle it like us older kids. We need to develop her and only nurture her positivity so that she sees our good examples and applies them in her world. We joke and call each other names, but it's important to know when to draw the line. My grandmother is the middle child of around ten years old and with so many siblings, it's certainly easy for tension to build. My grandmother's siblings were always careful not to be offensive when they had a disagreement or when something didn't go their way. My grandmother has gray-hazel eyes and freckles, so when one of her sisters asked her to take care of their household chores or buy them something at the store and she said no; they'd say "it's okay, old freckled face, I didn't want it anyway" or "get out of here gray eyes". It was their way of coming back without causing harm. They never put each other down and always support each other.