The principles of interpersonal communication1, We cannot not communicate, communication is a natural phenomenon between all beings. As we communicate naturally, we focus on verbal discourse to speak. Our body, for its part, emits signals as part of our communication. When we communicate, body language is expressed through intentional and unintentional signs. Some examples are:• Shoulder shrugging and shoulder slumping• Using hand movements• Raising and lowering eyebrows• Facial expressions• SighsSchmidt (2004) stated that a nod nod or a raised eyebrow may be all that is required of a listener. . We must be on the lookout for implicit requests for additional information that include honest feedback action to meet a need. One thing is certain. The more specific we can be about what we want from another person, the more likely we are to get what we want (p. 2). Verbal information is important for expressing the feelings and emotions that continually operate within us. However, adds Schmidt (2004), be positive and clear. Expressing our requests in a clear and friendly manner: “Can I have a strawberry ice cream please” Will we get what we want or information that our request is not available? (p. 1). It is important to use clear, positive communication and to be professional during the interview remembering that communication is irreversible.2 Communication is irreversible. Once we have spoken, the words cannot be taken back. Any of us would have been in a situation where we said something in jest and were taken the wrong way and later realized that the comments could have been implemented using a clearer, less confusing statement. To communicate effectively, we need a structured document...... middle of paper...... 10) Interpersonal communication. Development and sustainable relationships, (p. 32, 93). Schmidt M (February 19, 2008) We Can't Not Communicate (Pages 1,2) Retrieved from http://www.craigdailypress.comWood JT (2003) Interpersonal Communication, Everyday Encounters (4th ed.) Chapel Hill, Wadsworth ( page 32) Wood JT (2007) Interpersonal Communication, Everyday Encounters (5th ed.)Chapel Hill, Wadsworth (p. 14, 30, 34, 84,135,136,161,165).