I never knew my son had a drinking problem. This didn't surprise me though; his father had one too, but not as severe. She started to apologize and I thanked her for her apology. I understood what she was saying but I wasn't sure I could forgive her just yet. I understood that she was trying to protect herself, but I still couldn't understand that it was my son and that he was gone. The woman told me she wanted to make up for what she had done and began taking classes in prison focused on counseling women who find themselves in situations similar to hers. She spoke passionately about the classes and how what she is learning not only helps her, but also allows her to help women in similar situations. I asked the mediator if I could take a break and then come back, which he said was fine. I took the time to think about everything that happened and what we talked about. I came to the conclusion that I wanted to offer my forgiveness to this woman. Forgiveness is the first step toward healing, both for the offender and for myself. When I returned to the room, my thoughts were collected and I was ready to