I love when she states in step 7, don’t let life get in the way of your spiritual well-being – connect to your inner wisdom and create a personal practice.” Many people use life situations as a way to become more careless or mean, instead of using life situations as a tool to become smarter or mentally stronger. Reading this book gave me confirmation that if I think about myself before thinking about others, it doesn't make me a bad person or even a selfish person, but rather a person who cares about myself. She says we should focus more on our lives than on our personal goals and careers. If people spent more time focusing on their lives rather than everything else, people would be a lot happier in the world. Many people focus on things that aren't important at all or focus on their career or goals but have lives full of drama and upheaval. Your life is your foundation and your goals and career are what are built on your foundation. If you pile tons of stuff on top of something that doesn't have stable support, it will eventually collapse. People need to focus more on living happily and learning that it's okay to take care of themselves.